Tuesday, September 5, 2017

Secret Blessing

For weeks I have had a secret... a burning secret that I have wanted to shout to the world. Its the reason I have been hinting that I will be visiting the Uk in March. And its the reason that filled me with hope and positivity... and the strength to get through even the worst days. 

And here he/she is.... my little Bean.. my new grand baby due March 14 2018. My Baby girl is having a baby

Now if's thats not something to live for...I dont know what is

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Monday, September 4, 2017

Recharging My Batteries

I didnt think I would be well enough.. but I made it...
and MrD and I had a wonderful relaxing couple of days 
in the Cuyamaca mountains with friends. 
It was so quiet and peaceful...beautiful scenery.. 
and a huge variety of birds.. 
squirrels..wild turkeys... 
and look who popped by for breakfast.

We just had to be careful of the huge pine cones that fell from the trees
I have come home with my batteries recharged and ready to face the week.

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Saturday, September 2, 2017

Just a Little Late

Im still very tired.. but feeling much better

and although Im a day late...

I can finally say....
So many plans for this month 

It will be a good one

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Friday, September 1, 2017

What Dosnt Kill You....

I have been missing in action for the last couple of days again... and I apologise... but this last round of chemo was really brutal. The exhaustion started almost immediately on Tuesday morning.. The vomiting and upset stomach started on Wednesday...and I seem to have lost time. I vaguely remember MrD coming home yesterday and trying to get me to eat...its been a few days since I could keep anything inside.. and thats all I remember.. Dont know how I got to bed... or got through the night at all. The stomach cramps eased about an hour ago... and the nausea pills are at last working. Temperature is still high... but not a concern.

I look ill...and I feel ill

But it was the last one... I just need to get through it and then the only way is up. I am so happy to be getting to the end of this and get my life back. I have so much to look forward to.
I am very blessed

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

The Wrong Girl

What ever happens over the next few weeks..... 

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Monday, August 28, 2017

All Done !!

So...thats it...no more chemo.. I'm done. And as you can see from how poorly and swollen I look... its about time!

Nurse Sue found that the port had flipped back...and although I was quite apprehensive... the chemo needle went straight in. There was a problem though... this is me we are talking about so what do you expect. She ran saline through it via a syringe and was expecting blood to come out...no blood. She was expecting to see the saline in the tube go slightly brown but it stayed clear...and there was no tinny taste in my mouth. She asked me to cough hard a few times...no luck. She told me to raise my right arm... nothing. So then she had me stand and do some exercises... throwing my arms back... I must I must I must increase my bust.... seriously? Im one person who dosnt need help in that area and still nothing happened. Finally she had me bending to touch my toes. No one was more surprised than me that I could do it!!. And voila... blood appeared in the syringe tube. So we were good to go. During the treatment I had no other complications and by 1 o'clock I was ready for home with my Neulasta automatic meds dispenser attached to my tummy ready for tomorrow afternoons dose to help my white count. I have three more doses of steroids today and tomorrow and Im done with those too.

So apart from some side effects Im expecting.. and the meeting with Dr Phan in two weeks to discuss maintenance.. part one...and the most aggressive part... is over.. and I am so grateful.
The last six months has been the most scary time of my life. Although I tried not to show it there were times I thought I would never get through and I admit I have cried a couple of times. Not knowing what was coming next was the worse. But I met each challenge head on.. with Faith. Hope and a lot of laughter. 

I couldnt have done it without the love of my wonderful family... the encouragement from you my amazing friends and the never ending comfort..reassurance and total kick butt support from my incredibly loving soulmate MrD. 

You have all been with me every step of my Journey.. and I will always be grateful. I am so blessed.

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Friday, August 25, 2017

The Last Pre Chemo Meeting

So...I saw Dr Phan and it didnt go quite as planned. I feel a bit confused about whats going on but I think we have to move the goalposts a bit.

He was his usual cheery self as he bounced into the room with his huuuuuge smile. He said number six right? 
I said "yes...yay ...done.. dusted.. all finished."
He said "What you dont want to see me no more?" 
I replied " no... but you know what I mean. And ..this port can come out whenever you like now."
He looked at me and said "Hold that thought. It's rare for it to flip but lets leave it for now"

Hmmm ok

He went on to say my blood tests were quite good (quite???) and I was ok for Mondays chemo. Then he said so come back and see him in three weeks and we can discuss treatment options. Options?? He said look at it as maintenance. He said there are a few suggestions and we want to make things easy for you. So we will go over everything with you.. some things you may not like but we can discuss it. The only thing that is off the list is weekly Taxol cos you are allergic (now taxol is the chemo drug that they changed cos it gave me pain). He told me not to worry and concentrate on getting through this next round of treatment and we will have a long chat next time. And that was that.

I was really under the impression that after this last chemo all that was left were blood tests and a scan to make sure that the cancer was all gone and then regular check ups. Thats what we were told last time..but now its seems to be all change. I should have asked more questions but I was a bit taken aback. Sooo is my chemo over? Have they got all the cancer? Is this just to stop it coming back? Im just a bit confused right now (it dosn't take much)... but I will be asking Nurse Sue a lot of questions on Monday...but honestly it could be nothing. But, I am not worried. I have got through the worse... and can definitely cope with what ever is to come.

I just hope I will be well enough to do all the things MrD and I have planned for September

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Thursday, August 24, 2017


Its been a pretty good week..so far. I've been feeling quite well in the lead up to my last chemo. I have had more energy and have been walking every day... and even passing my goal of 5,000 steps on them. Its quite an achievement considering that on some days I wasnt even reaching 2.000 in the whole day...dragging myself everywhere

Here's a couple of snippets..from the last few days...

My Gorgeous Grandson... Little H... graduated from pre school. Isnt he just the cutest 4 yr old. Look at those dimples. I cant wait to see him again when go back to the Uk next year. Im one proud Nana
My daughter sent a parcel from the Uk....with souvenirs from her engagement party... chocolate...which was so smooth and creamy.. and a coffee mug for MrD. 
He really enjoyed his coffee on his way to work at 2.30 in the morning...but look how tired he is. Thank you Dear Daughter...it is  success
Hubby and I went to see Damage Inc ...a Metallica tribute band. They were excellent... so if you have the chance to see them... GO! Can you spot MrD in the crowd... its like "Where's Wally" But here's a clue...he's wearing a black shirt.....
I saw my first sunflowers on my walks this week. Time to get out my box of Fall/Autumn decorations out and see whats what. I have some homemade, DIY decor ideas I want to try to for the season.. I will post them if they look good. Boy this year has gone fast.. but it means my treatments are near the end.

Next stop.... Christmas
And on that wonderful thought.... Enjoy the rest of your day

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x

Wednesday, August 23, 2017

I'm Still Here

Its been quite a while so this is just a very small post to say Im still here... in more ways than one. 
My chemo is going very well and Im coming to the end of my treatments and we are all very optimistic. I have been keeping a diary of events and writing posts but not publishing them. Im not sure why. Fear I suppose. But now the news seems good I will tweak them and post them a couple at a time.. so you can see whats been happening...Hopefully this wont overwhelm you.

So a big thank you for all the messages of love and support. It means a great deal to me 

Love and Hugs
Phoebe x